Bump build dependencies and use dev.py on msys2/multiarch CI

[ankith26]

Separated out from #3128 for independent review.

Most of the bumps are minor bumps, but there's also a major version bump for sphinx. From what I can tell nothing broke here, but more eyes on this would definitely be helpful.

[zoldalma999]

while building the docs with sphinx 8.1.3, got the following message:

checking consistency... \docs\reST\tutorials\chimp.py.rst: document is referenced in multiple toctrees: ['tutorials/en/chimp-explanation', 'tutorials/es/ChimpanceLineaporLinea'], selecting: tutorials/es/ChimpanceLineaporLinea <- tutorials/chimp.py
\docs\reST\tutorials\en\tom-games2.rst: document is referenced in multiple toctrees: ['index', 'tutorials/en/make-games'], selecting: tutorials/en/make-games <- tutorials/en/tom-games2
\docs\reST\tutorials\en\tom-games3.rst: document is referenced in multiple toctrees: ['index', 'tutorials/en/make-games'], selecting: tutorials/en/make-games <- tutorials/en/tom-games3
\docs\reST\tutorials\en\tom-games4.rst: document is referenced in multiple toctrees: ['index', 'tutorials/en/make-games'], selecting: tutorials/en/make-games <- tutorials/en/tom-games4
\docs\reST\tutorials\en\tom-games5.rst: document is referenced in multiple toctrees: ['index', 'tutorials/en/make-games'], selecting: tutorials/en/make-games <- tutorials/en/tom-games5
\docs\reST\tutorials\en\tom-games6.rst: document is referenced in multiple toctrees: ['index', 'tutorials/en/make-games'], selecting: tutorials/en/make-games <- tutorials/en/tom-games6

This does not block the PR necessarily, but should be fixed at some point.

Otherwise looks good to me, I did not see any issues with the generated docs.

[ankith26]

Just force pushed with a rebase on main, and while I was at it I did a couple of other dependency updates that I had missed

[MyreMylar]

OK, LGTM 👍