HBFUtils: Optional throw on failed parsing of opt

[f3sch]

This moves the logic of throwing (now optionally) on parsing an unknown opt to the getOptType function.
When help-opt was given this, does not throw.
This also fixed the use of ’--hbfutils-config none’.

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[shahor02]

Thanks!