feat(http): get client ip from headers

[flaneur2020]

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Summary

currently the IP we got is retrieved from req.remote_addr, which represents the direct connection's IP address.

but when we deployed with having a proxy up front, it only reprents the proxy's IP.

this PR tries to retrieve the ip from headers including X-Real-IP, X-Forwarded-For, CF-Connecting-IP, these headers can help us retrieve the real ip of the client.

please note that the ip address from the headers are easy to be manipulated by middleman. we have to ensure the proxies are trustworthy, or the middleman may use a fake header to trick the network policy.

(however, it's necessary to trust the proxy in a cloud deployment IMHO.)

Tests

• Unit Test

Type of change

• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

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