chore(query): add merge ratio in sort spill

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Summary

add merge ratio in sort spill

• Fixes #[Link the issue here]

This query is working now

🐳 :) set sort_spilling_memory_ratio = 60;
🐳 :) select referer,params from hits order by referer,params ignore_result;
0 row read in 78.471 sec. Processed 100 million row, 7.72 GiB (1.27 million row/s, 100.76 MiB/s)

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Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
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