Fixed send and sync for mutex and rwlock

[zhang2014]

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Summary

Implement send and sync for all type is unsafe(our previous understanding of send and sync is problematic)

Thanks jorgecarleitao/arrow2#368 (comment)

Changelog

• Bug Fix

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Codecov Report

Merging #1705 (e66bacf) into master (cbd8a3c) will increase coverage by 0%.
The diff coverage is 62%.

@@           Coverage Diff           @@
##           master   #1705    +/-   ##
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  Coverage      72%     72%            
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  Files         578     574     -4     
  Lines       34010   33882   -128     
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- Hits        24594   24577    -17     
+ Misses       9416    9305   -111     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
common/infallible/src/mutex.rs	100% <ø> (ø)
common/infallible/src/rwlock.rs	82% <ø> (ø)
.../pipelines/transforms/group_by/aggregator_state.rs	20% <30%> (ø)
...ry/src/pipelines/transforms/group_by/aggregator.rs	83% <68%> (-4%)	⬇️
common/streams/src/sources/source_csv.rs	93% <100%> (-1%)	⬇️
common/streams/src/sources/source_values.rs	96% <100%> (ø)
...pipelines/transforms/transform_group_by_partial.rs	74% <100%> (-1%)	⬇️
common/datavalues/src/data_value.rs	45% <0%> (-3%)	⬇️
common/datavalues/src/types/mod.rs	33% <0%> (-3%)	⬇️
query/src/interpreters/interpreter_explain.rs	53% <0%> (-2%)	⬇️
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