Change container node pool defaults

[modular-magician]

fixes hashicorp/terraform-provider-google#6236

fixes hashicorp/terraform-provider-google#13706

both auto repair and auto upgrade default to true according to these docs and verified in testing
https://cloud.google.com/kubernetes-engine/docs/how-to/node-auto-repair
https://cloud.google.com/kubernetes-engine/docs/how-to/node-auto-upgrades

upgrade guide: GoogleCloudPlatform/magic-modules#8969

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container: removed default for `logging_variant` in `google_container_node_pool`

container: changed `management.auto_repair` and `management.auto_upgrade` defaults to true in `google_container_node_pool`

Derived from GoogleCloudPlatform/magic-modules#8967