Update DevTools to use getCacheForType API (facebook#20548)

DevTools was built with a fork of an early idea for how Suspense cache might work. This idea is incompatible with newer APIs like `useTransition` which unfortunately prevented me from making certain UX improvements. This PR swaps out the primary usage of this cache (there are a few) in favor of the newer `unstable_getCacheForType` and `unstable_useCacheRefresh` APIs. We can go back and update the others in follow up PRs.

### Messaging changes

I've refactored the way the frontend loads component props/state/etc to hopefully make it better match the Suspense+cache model. Doing this gave up some of the small optimizations I'd added but hopefully the actual performance impact of that is minor and the overall ergonomic improvements of working with the cache API make this worth it.

The backend no longer remembers inspected paths. Instead, the frontend sends them every time and the backend sends a response with those paths. I've also added a new "force" parameter that the frontend can use to tell the backend to send a response even if the component hasn't rendered since the last time it asked. (This is used to get data for newly inspected paths.)

_Initial inspection..._
```
front |                                                      | back
      | -- "inspect" (id:1, paths:[], force:true) ---------> |
      | <------------------------ "inspected" (full-data) -- |
```
_1 second passes with no updates..._
```
      | -- "inspect" (id:1, paths:[], force:false) --------> |
      | <------------------------ "inspected" (no-change) -- |
```
_User clicks to expand a path, aka hydrate..._
```
      | -- "inspect" (id:1, paths:['foo'], force:true) ----> |
      | <------------------------ "inspected" (full-data) -- |
```
_1 second passes during which there is an update..._
```
      | -- "inspect" (id:1, paths:['foo'], force:false) ---> |
      | <----------------- "inspectedElement" (full-data) -- |
```

### Clear errors/warnings transition
Previously this meant there would be a delay after clicking the "clear" button. The UX after this change is much improved.

### Hydrating paths transition
I also added a transition to hydration (expanding "dehyrated" paths).

### Better error boundaries
I also added a lower-level error boundary in case the new suspense operation ever failed. It provides a better "retry" mechanism (select a new element) so DevTools doesn't become entirely useful. Here I'm intentionally causing an error every time I select an element.

### Improved snapshot tests
I also migrated several of the existing snapshot tests to use inline snapshots and added a new serializer for dehydrated props. Inline snapshots are easier to verify and maintain and the new serializer means dehydrated props will be formatted in a way that makes sense rather than being empty (in external snapshots) or super verbose (default inline snapshot format).

package.json

@@ -107,7 +107,7 @@
   "scripts": {
     "build": "node ./scripts/rollup/build.js",
     "build-combined": "node ./scripts/rollup/build-all-release-channels.js",
-    "build-for-devtools": "cross-env RELEASE_CHANNEL=experimental yarn build react/index,react-dom,react-is,react-debug-tools,scheduler,react-test-renderer,react-refresh",
+    "build-for-devtools": "cross-env RELEASE_CHANNEL=experimental yarn build-combined react/index,react-dom,react-is,react-debug-tools,scheduler,react-test-renderer,react-refresh",
     "build-for-devtools-dev": "yarn build-for-devtools --type=NODE_DEV",
     "build-for-devtools-prod": "yarn build-for-devtools --type=NODE_PROD",
     "linc": "node ./scripts/tasks/linc.js",